Posts Tagged ‘monster march against bullying’
In any war, the battle is essentially being fought for the generations to follow: for our children. And, their children. Warriors lay their lives on the line so that their kids, their kids kids, can have a better, safer, happier life. The “warriors” of Stonewall fought for their “kids”, the generation of young LGBT kids coming behind them. And, behind them. I’m so glad they did. See, I’m part of the generation they were fighting for.
I remember Stonewall being in the news. I was 12. I knew, instinctively, that what was going on in the newspaper (life before the Internet was vastly different!) was good. By that time in my life, I was fully aware that I was a gay teen and had already had my first boyfriend. Seeing them lay their lives on the line against an establishment that hated them touched me in an indescribable place. I knew.
The war we’re fighting today is for the liberty, justice, and equality for our LGBT youth of today. We’re fighting for their freedom to live happily without a government or religious body that sanctions their being attacked, both emotionally and physically. We’re fighting for their freedom to marry the one they love, just as their straight counterparts will do. We’re fighting for equality, for ourselves as well as for them.
And, we’re passing the torch.
Because of the Internet, there’s a “right-now-ness” that we didn’t have in generations gone by. We can, and do, connect with people all around this massive globe at the click of the “send” button. And, as a result, there’s a movement going on right now that is going to change the world as we know it. A paradigm shift. Yes, we the children of Stonewall are paving the way. However, the torch is also being passed to some very strong, very dedicated young leaders. And, they need to be recognized for the work they’re doing:
- Christi O’Connor contacted me about a month ago about the Monster March Against Bullying. The goal is for at least 10,000 LGBT teens to march to the step of San Francisco’s City Hall in an effort to compel their leaders that “It HAS TO Get Better”. The Rodemeyers will be there. Jonah Mowry and his family will be there. That’s powerful stuff. And, all of this was organized by TEENS!! On her wall, Christi posted this:
“Hi Everyone.The good news is we have more wonderful content, new partners and teens’ videos we hadn’t anticipated this week. The down news is it has delayed our launch of our www.themonstermarch.com site until MONDAY. We’ll remind everyone to go to it Monday. So sorry for the delay. Big announcements coming on the site!”
The official website goes up on Monday. Looking forward to checking that out. Looking forward even more to October and their Monster March!!
- While not at teen, at 23, Mark Blane is still young enough to be considered part of the youth movement. This very talented director/playwright/activist is putting his best effort into making a difference. On June 1st, 2nd, and 3rd, the play, which Mark wrote and directed, “The Rock and The Ripe” will go into production in Chicago. The play is about “the bullied and bruised Gay Youth of America”. There’s also a book by the same title. But, most importantly, Mark has a fundraiser page in place in an attempt to take this provocative and important play national. This very compelling video makes you understand what’s at stake.
And, then there’s 18-year-old Brett Simpson. I had seen this video response floating around for a while but, quite frankly, didn’t watch it because I’d grown weary of the “flash-card messages”. Eventually, of course, I gave in and watched it. (it kept popping up here and there, so I figured there had to be something to it. I was right.) Watching that video changed my life. Here was this handsome 18-year-old who, himself, had been badly bullied!, reaching out to other teens who were in crisis! He opened his life to the world of LGBT teens, giving almost all of his personal information, and told them “I’m always here for you”. That, alone, made my eyes water. Refusing to be “the victim”, Brett instead stood strong and reached out. And, the teens have been responding!!! As an example, this message was just posted to his wall: Zachary Smith: “Brett, this is amazing. I know you can do great things for the future of this country. It would be wonderful to meet you someday. Also, make sure you save this somewhere, because coming from someone who wrote something similar about a long battle with learning disabilities, personal written pieces such as this one are very appealing to higher learning institutions, if that’s what you plan on doing in the future.” He has quite a following in his facebook community, Click “Like” if You Support the LGBT Questioning Community. I’ve been so impressed with the work Brett’s doing, I made him an administrator on my facebook blog page. And, he’s done great there, as well.
- As a testimony to the impact Brett is having on the young, up-and-coming LGBT teens, this video was made by a 14-year-old LGBT youth named John. The video is stunning, to say the least. And, to think that a 14-year-old produced it just warms the heart. The message is clear and, coming from someone who is in the age group most affected by the bullying against LGBT teens in this country, and around the world!, it’s extremely powerful. If the readers of this blog post click no other link herein, do check out this video.
Obviously, there are more teens around who are doing some great things, like Daria, Amber, and Alexis in Indiana who have their own anti-bullying page. And, they’re only in middle school!!! I could probably dedicate an entire week, at least!, recognizing the efforts being undertaken by our youth, gay and straight alike, as they take matters into their own hands in attempt to make their world a better place. This is just a few of them.
The world truly is changing, right before our eyes. And, it’s changing for the better. Most importantly, the youth-led movement is really getting traction and making a difference. It makes us older warriors feel good to know that the torch is being passed to such capable hands.
While we’re enjoying a moment of relative calm, and I’m knocking on wood as I say that, I figured this is a good time to do a little reflecting. And, sharing.
We’re in a time period right here and now that I’ve been dreaming about since I was a much younger man. I’ve always said that the only way things were ever going to change would be for every gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trangender person to come out of the closet and make themselves known. That day is here. We’re coming out at the workplace; we’re coming out in middle and high school. And, our voices are resonating around the globe. It’s a beautiful day.
Of course, it isn’t coming without resistance from “the other side”. That just means that we’re doing something right! We’re standing up and telling the world that we are no less equal than anyone else. And, it’s scaring the hell out of “them”. That’s fine. Change scares people.
And, of course, there’s still a lot of work to be done. The issue of bullying and LGBT teen suicide is a black eye on the face of this, the new Civil Rights movement. Slowly but surely, as more and more people are standing up to be counted, changes are being made even on that sore spot. In some cases, sadly, the change isn’t coming fast enough.
We’re at an exciting time in our history. Not just LGBT history! History, period!! Within the next 10-15 years, marriage equality will be the norm. The LGBT teen suicide will be next-to-nil because the changing environment will no longer tell them that they’re freaks, sick, or damaged. It will embrace them. At the very least, it will accept them. What a major boost to their collective self-esteem that will be. We’re on the forefront of that movement right here, right now. And, years down the road, people will look back upon this time as the turning point, the point in time where we stood up and told the world ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, and made them listen. And, there will be names that will stand out.
Lyndsay Winegarden created a safe haven for at-risk teens in her effort to STOP Teenage Suicide. That’s no small feat.
Charity Smith created a forum for people to come out anonymously. How huge is that!? That’s a major step for many people.
When Jamie Hubley committed suicide in October 2011, several tribute pages popped up on facebook in his honor. One in particular, though, has morphed into the most loving and caring support community online. People there know each other by name. When people have struggles, there’s always, always, always people there ready to rush to their assistance. Amazing.
Young people are coming forward bravely and very effectively and reaching out to their peers in an effort to make a difference. Brett Simpson created a video encouraging other teens to contact him personally if they needed someone to talk to or if they were struggling. Not satisfied with that, he turned his personal social network page into a support community AND started a second one. The response to both has been nothing short of phenomenal.
Jonah Mowry is part of a group of teens who have decided to take the matter of bullying, as well as their future as LGBT teens, into their own hands. They are organizing what they’re calling the Monster March Against Bullying, with the goal of having tens of thousands of teens from all over the country (world?) march with them to San Francisco’s City Hall in October. That’s incredible stuff!
Those of you who have been reading this blog for a while know that it was Jamie Hubley’s suicide that made me decide to roll up my sleeves and get involved in trying to make a difference. This blog was created, and will always be written, in his honor. He gave me my true voice. And, since its inception on November 7th, I’ve been humbled by the response it has received. It’s being read by hundreds, and sometimes thousands, per day. More importantly, it’s making a difference in people’s lives. That wouldn’t be happening, however, without every single one of you who are reading these words right now! You read it; you respond to it by way of your comments and emails; and, you get involved when it’s called upon you to do so. So, it’s actually YOU who are making the difference!!
Together, we are changing history!! I’ve dreamed of this historic moment forever.
Written by Ron Kemp
March 6, 2012 at 7:30 am